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Trauma‑Aware Instructor Code of Ethics

A professional standard for firearms educators committed to survivor‑centered, ethical, and emotionally safe instruction

This Code of Ethics is designed for instructors who understand that firearms education is not just technical — it’s emotional, neurological, and deeply personal for trauma survivors. It reflects the principles you live by: clarity, dignity, autonomy, and zero exploitation.

1. Respect for Autonomy

Instructors commit to:

  • honoring each student’s pace

  • allowing students to opt out without pressure

  • supporting informed decision‑making

  • never using fear to influence choices

Survivors lead their own learning.

2. Trauma‑Aware Communication

Instructors commit to:

  • using calm, clear language

  • avoiding intimidation or raised voices

  • explaining before demonstrating

  • checking in regularly

Communication should regulate, not overwhelm.

3. Emotional Safety First

Instructors commit to:

  • normalizing breaks

  • recognizing signs of dysregulation

  • never shaming fear or hesitation

  • creating a judgment‑free environment

Emotional safety is as important as physical safety.

4. No Exploitation of Vulnerability

Instructors commit to:

  • never using a survivor’s story for marketing

  • never centering themselves in a student’s journey

  • never leveraging fear to sell classes or gear

  • never framing themselves as a savior

Empowerment is taught — not performed.

5. Evidence‑Based, Ethical Instruction

Instructors commit to:

  • teaching skills grounded in best practices

  • avoiding dramatized scenarios

  • prioritizing safety over theatrics

  • staying within their scope of expertise

Skill replaces spectacle.

6. Boundaries and Professionalism

Instructors commit to:

  • maintaining appropriate boundaries

  • avoiding over‑familiarity or emotional enmeshment

  • respecting student privacy

  • keeping training spaces free from ego and competition

Professionalism protects everyone.

7. Commitment to Continued Learning

Instructors commit to:

  • ongoing trauma‑aware education

  • seeking feedback without defensiveness

  • adapting to student needs

  • staying informed on best practices

Good instructors evolve — they don’t posture.

Trauma Aware Tip Sheet For Instructors

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